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Jay Cleon Coates

b: 03/25/1934, Mount Pleasant, Utah
d: 05/18/2024, Moab, Utah
Service: Private

OBITUARY

Jay Cleon Coates (1934‑2024) passed away in the early morning hours of May 18, 2024, at Moab Regional Hospital. He was 90.

Jay was born March 25, 1934, in Mt. Pleasant, Utah, the son of Max F. Coates and Lena (Brewer) Coates. Jay was the fifth of six children and grew up in Mt. Pleasant on the family farm. Beginning when he was a young boy, Jay worked for his uncle, managing herds of cattle and sheep. He spent many cold days and even some nights on a horse during this time—a period that undoubtably shaped his work ethic.

Jay was a 1952 graduate of North Sanpete High School in Mt. Pleasant. As a young man, Jay became an excellent marksman and a fine guitar player. Leaving farming and ranching behind, he worked for a time as a truck driver. He also learned to operate several types of heavy equipment, a skill that would serve him well for the rest of his life. In the late 1950s, a friend introduced Jay to Donna Allen in Salt Lake City, and Jay and Donna were married on December 13, 1959, starting their journey together.

In 1963, work opportunities drew Jay and Donna to Moab and the couple soon settled in the area. By that time, they were a complete family of four—Jay, Donna, and children Shelly and Monty.

During the mid-1960s, Jay founded a successful drilling company dedicated to mineral exploration. He and Donna owned and operated Coates Drilling for nearly two decades. At Coates Drilling, Jay’s employees gave him the nickname “Cowboy,” a name that continued to be used by many friends and family members throughout his life.

All through the 1970s and 80s, Jay was a member of the Moab Elks Club, where he was especially fond of the late-night poker games. He was also a member of Shriners International for some time. Jay had a passion for the game of golf, and in the 1980s he was intimately involved in the design and construction of the back nine holes of the Moab Golf Club.

Ever the entrepreneur, Jay designed and built the Spanish Trail RV Park south of Moab. Jay and Donna operated the RV park for several years before selling the park and finally retiring in the mid‑1990s.

In addition to his parents, Jay was preceded in death by his siblings: Wayne Coates, LaVar Coates, Lucille Taylor, Maxine Hill, and Marian Blackett. He is survived by his wife of 64 years, Donna, daughter Shelly Coates Harker (Craig), son Monty Coates (Kelley), six grandchildren, and eight great grandchildren.

Jay loved central and southeastern Utah, and he had a self-taught knowledge of the geology of the region. Jay enjoyed fishing and hunting with good friends, scotch whisky on ice, and the unique sound of music from a mandolin. It can’t be said that Jay was a big man, but to those who knew him well, his ambition, vision, and grit truly made him seem that way. He will be missed dearly.

No public services are planned.

TRIBUTES

We worked for Jay in the 80's when he bought the Ranch in Sinbad, Colorado. He was a truly good guy and we sincerely appreciate his friendship. He will be missed but, never forgotten. What a guy.
- Bill and Malaine Wareham

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